Okay, the unofficial end of summer has come and the busy school year has begun.  Everyone in your household is getting back into a more structured schedule full of activities with little downtime.  One of the nicest things a spouse can do is to just selflessly PITCH IN when something needs doing: change a diaper, make the lunches for the kids, walk the dog, empty the dishwasher, throw the clothes in the dryer ... the list goes on and on ...